Hi Indigo! Welcome to the Windows 7 Forums website!
I use Windows 7 Pro x64 version and my RAM usage in idle, that is not running any applications will be roughly from 1.3 to 1.5 GB usage. (That's with being at the desktop and my other stuff running in the system tray.)
I have a total of 6GB of DDR2 PC8500 1066MHz RAM installed @ 5-5-5-15 @ 2.1vdc
Microsoft recommends a "minimum" of 2GB RAM for the x64 version of Windows 7. However, most users will run at 4GB of RAM in x64, but in your case you "may" want to go to 6 GB.
Depends upon how RAM intensive your software is and what recommendations the software makers suggest.